Family Members Left Behind

[sweetpea]

My family is so angry right now and lash out at evry word or comment. Can't barley discuss the loss of mom without negativity. How does every deal with this?

[niamh]

sweetpea,

sometimes I think family especially close family members are probably the "worst" to provide support and be there at a time like this. I say that because every reacts so differently, grief is so unique to each person.

I'm sorry your family is so angry and you feel you can't discuss your Mom the way you want.

I know for me personally I was so so angry in the beginning, now it comes and goes. I would often try to just be alone when the anger/rage would hit me hard, I just didn't want to say something I'd regret to somebody and I needed to process it alone.

I really don't know what to say to you, I know I lashed out around my Mom at times but never really directly at her although maybe I snapped at times .....but she completely understood and knew that it wasn't her I was angry it, it wasn't anyone in this world I was angry at.

am here to listen if you want to share more with us,

((hugs)) to you sweetpea,

Niamh

xx

[sweetpea]

Thanks, I can't talk to any of my half sisters and brothers right now they are angry the most. Their dad is still alive but, are more angry than all 6 of us. i don't see why they still have one parent.