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“What Now” Instead Of “What If”

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What is something you are looking forward to?

This week? This month? Next year?

New house? New baby? New job? Vacation? Graduation? Retirement?

One of things I’ve been looking forward to is letting my grief slowing disappear. From everything that happened over the course of 2007-2009, I’m at point in my life where I want to look forward instead of looking back. Instead of saying “what if” saying “what now”.

I do believe looking forward has three important components to it:

•Don’t doubt yourself, use your gut instinct.

Meaning that don’t be afraid of yourself. You are your worst enemy. Defeat your doubts and you will become a better person for it.


When was the last time you talked to your maker? Sometimes I go days without having a relationship with Him but I try my best to know He is always in my heart.

•Better days ahead.

Whatever you are struggling with, you must trust there are better days ahead. Trust Him. Trust yourself. Trust good things will happen to you….because you might not recognize them when there at your footstep.

I started applying for new jobs, developing new websites, spending more time developing my speaking habits, and writing. But something is still missing, like a vacation!

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Very inspiring.

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