Wildflower Posted November 2, 2014 Report Share Posted November 2, 2014 My Mom passed about 11 months ago after a long illness with breast cancer. My Dad starting dated 10 days after she died. I am trying to be supportive and am pleased he seems to be thriving as I know we all have to move forward. I live in another country so the problem seemed kind of far away and I didn't have to really be part of it. My 3 brothers live in his town and have quite a hard time with it. But then the problem came closer to me. He was out to visit us a few months ago and met a woman here much younger than himself. They now have a close online relationship. I know it's not my business, but now he is talking about wanting to come and visit again. He is not saying directly that he wants to see her, but he is saying this to her as she tells us this. So I feel that if he does come, we would be the "guise" so to speak which makes me feel under valued. I love him, but he is very difficult to talk directly to as he has narcissistic qualities. I am wondering how to tell him how I feel. I just don't think I could cope with him pursuing a relationship under my roof if he comes to visit. I have not yet reconciled my Moms death, am still healing and have too much to deal with in my own personal life. I wondered about encouraging him to meet her somewhere else neutral instead? Anyone else been in this situation? Help! Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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