steph514 Posted November 10, 2014 Report Share Posted November 10, 2014 I'm 36 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for only 1 months and a half. I new right away how compatible we were and where the relationship could grow to. I was meeting his son and his mom ..it was all planned Since we met I knew his father had cancer that had returned and my boyfriend often spoke about it with me .. how he felt ect..he just this week found out that they are not doing chimo and he has only weeks to live.. I know I have only experienced his grief with that news and I also know that there will be the true grief after the loss.. I care tremendously for him and want to be there for him.Its difficult cause I don't know the family .. I'm afraid of what this will do on the progression of our relationship Since it so new... He does talk to me about his feelings and he is happy I am there to listen.. I know that a lot of his time will be spent with his father and family and I will unfortunately be but on the back burner.. I guess I would like some advice on anyone who has been in this situation. I want to be there but I also no my needs may be put aside. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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