Loss Of My Sister

[sh3d3vilinme]

Hello i just wanted to introduce myself, my name is Bobbie and i lost my sister Nov 28,2004. she was in a car accident, she had been hit by 2 different cars. she was survived by her husband and 3 beautiful kids. we thought it would be much better after a year but it seems its only getting worse as the days go by. my brother n law had remarried about 6 months after my sisters death and moved to a new location and as the aunts and uncles found that they have no rights. we rarely get to see the kids except when he feels fit to let us. my mother is having to sue for grandparent rights as we speak. we have no burial plot to go too, only the site where her death occured. does life after death get any better?

[Maylissa]

sh3d3vilinme,

Welcome, and my sympathies in the loss of your sister. I lost one of my 2 brothers coming up 2 yrs. ago this Feb. and while the familial situations are different, I, too, have had nothing but trouble with remaining family ever since. So, while there's always hope, I suppose, my opinion so far is that sometimes these broken ties never mend after a loss. It's all personal to each family, but I've had no success whatsoever in any of my endeavors to date. This can really make grieving complicated and harder to resolve. My Mother's ashes are either with my remaining brother, whom I have no contact with now, or she's been interred somewhere where I've not been told about, so I'm in the same boat there as you.

[andrea]

hi my name is andrea and 3 years ago this july my sister lisa died she died through alchol she was 30 years old when she died. and i still feel guilty about enjoying myself she left 2 beautiful kids 1 of her daughters live with me but when i go to family partys i still feel guilty for enjoying myself so i dont i go and sit somewhere quiet til its time to go home i still walk down the street and if i see anything nice i say to myself look lisa look what your missing all because you wanted a drink im still very annoyed with her for dieing sometimes i think to myself if she was here now i dont know what i would do smack her or wrap my arms around her and kiss her i would like to know if any 1 else has felt like this thankyou andreaxx

[Guest Guest_shell_*]

im sorry to say in the 22 years since i lost my brother it has not got easier for me i was 5 when i brother died i remember like it was yesterday everyday i am 28 now and i know he could never lead a normal life

[Kerry]

I am sorry to hear about all your losses. I lost my brother 16 years ago. He was a beautiful little boy. The pain and sadness never go away but become less consistant in every day life. It does get better over time. But depression from it can come back and hit you at any time in your life. Even when you think you have been able to move on. The key is to get help when it does. Please don't be alone in your pain. They would not want us to suffer a lifetime over this. They know how much we love them and death cannot separate us. I have a strong spirtual connection with my brother. I dream about him every nite.