Pain Is Inevitable; Suffering Is Optional by Nan Zastrow “Does time heal all wounds?” If you are a griever, you have no doubt heard this cliché more than once. On April 16, it will be fifteen years since the death of our beloved son, Chad. People who know us have quit asking, “Do you ever get over it?” They know what our response will be: “A parent never forgets the loss of a child. The loss will always be fresh in our minds, but in an instant, we can have a flashback to the exact moment w