I have a question for some of the health care professionals. My physician has prescribed an anti anxiety med (lorasapam) and a anti-depression med (Effexor XR). I am very cauious about using them, but I do believe that my crying episodes are much less when I do take the lorasapam. Am I just prolonging the grieving process by taking these? I was told once by a friend that was a NP that after you go off of them you are still going to have to go through the emotions and feelings. Just wondering an