Let me first say hello to everyone here. It's been a while since I last posted. I get updates from time to time via e-mail, but haven't spent much time reading forum posts. It's now 2 years and 8 months since I lost my husband to cancer, and life is still difficult - but not as difficult as it used to be. Not so many tears. And I'm far more independent. I am managing okay. The grief is not as deep and desperate, apart from the occasional aftershock - even after this long. I feel a little mor