Here is a helpful and informative video featuring our wonderful friend and colleague Peggy Haymes, discussing the various types of grief and the myths surrounding them. (Allow 21 minutes.)
This article contains a link to Kelley Lynn's outstanding March 31 TEDx Talk at Adelphi University ~ truly worth watching ~ about, among other things, the ridiculous, unsolicited advice she received following the sudden death of her husband: When Someone You Love Dies, There Is No Such Thing As Moving On.