littlebro

Darrel: Please stay and let us help and support you; It's much better than trying to "go it, alone"!

We would rather that you stayed with us, Darrel.

No, please don't go, olemisfit!!!!! Please don't let some Idiot upset you!!! We're here for you!!

Hey, what's this?!!

I didn't think we're supposed to be upsetting each other in this Forum?!!!

I'm very sorry this has happened to you, olemisfit, and I would have thought normally, that you are in the right place!!

We're supposed to be here to support each other!

Gwenivere: What wonderful comments.

Oh, AB3: I know how you feel; I've felt like that, on and off, since I lost my little brother; So try to hang in there; I know it's hard, but your Mom, and your family and friends love you, and we're all here for you, too.

xoxo

AB3,

I'm so very sorry.

Please take good care.

littlebro

Robin,

Even though I'm a man, I totally agree with what the ladies here have said to you; This should never be considered a Taboo topic, as I feel it's a perfectly normal thing, for both men and women to feel!

And I don't think there's anything wrong, with men and women taking care of their own sexual needs and urges, by themselves, either!

The only thing I would advise, is, just like the ladies have said: Don't rush into anything, involving another man; no matter how kind and genuine they appear to be!! Because, sadly, most of us men are sex-driven, and are usually out to get that: and only that! If you know what I mean!! And the last thing you need is to be either heartbroken, or caught up in a relationship or situation that only complicates your life, and which you really probably don't need: Especially at this stage, when you're still grieving!!

Anyway, I hope this helps, at least a little bit?!

Kindest Regards, always,

littlebro

xo

I'm so very sorry.

Yes, Mitch; And I'd be exactly the same way, if I lost my wife; I wouldn't ever want anyone else, either.

I believe that Tammy is with you all the time: watching over you.

hollowheart,

You have my sincere sympathy; My younger brother and only sibling, died 25 years ago, at the age of 27, and I still haven't recovered!

Please take good care.

Kindest Regards to you, always. 

littlebro

I totally agree with you, Mitch; Life certainly is NOT fair.

I'm so very sorry, Mittam99

I'm so sorry, Kakalina; You have my deepest sympathy.