Sparklesdebs

??? Bye bye baby ???????

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Maybe search under the item no or description? 

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/161939076775 https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/161939076775 

eBay was the most reasonable as photobox & snapfish sites charged a lot lot more.

I used this person, it came really quickly too. Within three days.  Then I just went to IKEA & bought stuffing. 

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/161939076775 

I don't know what made me think of it, but having a cushion is brilliant, I can Stoke, cuddle or just have her next to me still. It's not the same, it never will be but having the cushion is a lovely comfort.?

16 hours ago, Kariaries said:

I am so sorry. I am grieving with you. My angel was taken from my children and I on Tuesday. My boyfriends pit bull attacked and killed my baby. Being at home seeing the horrible scene replay over and over is torture. I can feel the pain you are feeling. I wasn't sure where to go to talk through my grief. I wasn't sure people would understand the mourning of a pet. You are in the right place to get the support you need to help you work through this time. Your sweet kitty was beautiful. I am so sorry for this terrible loss. I think all we can do is take one moment at a time and try to keep our lives going right now, and hopefully smiles and happiness will come again.

I'm so sorry for your loss too xx it's been 9 days now, I am better but still in pain. She was my companion as I live alone and am single, she was my baby I raised her. To lose her has been devastating, loss is hard in any form 

On 11 July 2016 at 2:48 PM, Marj37 said:

Hi Sparkles

You are definitely at the right place to share your loss feelings.   We know the pain.  And we know the time it takes.

Your kitty is (her spirit is with you forever) - beautiful.  Thanks for the picture.  It is beautiful.   And brown tabbies are my favorites 100000%.   Lost my special connection Gb last summer - he was very ill.   And it took several months of crying before I felt like I was human again.  But not a day passes that I don't have a pang of grief for him.  this is a very hard time for you.  Take one minute or hour or day at a time.   That special connection has been physically broken.  When they have eaten, slept with us, been our companion 24/7 it is normal to hurt.  And it hurts like nothing else. 

It really helped me cope with the sad minutes to scribble in my anger journal. Sometimes the words were huge!!!! Also I bought a pretty journal at the bookstore to start writing all the antics and memories of Gb.  Often tears would roll as I wrote. 

And maybe set up a memorial space in your house where you can sit and talk to her.   

The emptiness is hard.  Keep crying.  Take care of yourself even if you don't feel like eating - a couple bites are better than none; and so it is important to keep hydrated.

Post often.  Our hearts stay with you.   And again, I am so sorry for your kitty to be gone.  What was her name?

Daisy hun xx 

Struggling to cope with the loss, it's been 4 days, it's my birthday today I'm so sad and depressed.

only just can I bear to be at home, she's not here, she's not beside me, everytime I look out my bedroom window I can see the stain on the road ???? 

I just want her, I just need someone or something beside me. 

She was my best friend, my companion and my constant for 7 years.

From a kitten I bought her up, raised her and although she wasn't as affectionate as I'd have liked I loved her & she loved me.

Our time together cut short on Thursday night, I knew something was wrong when she didn't come in, I called her & called her but nothing. At 5.30am still nothing so I got up looking for her outside, eventually confronted with a note on a tree stating a dark tabby had been found but not alive. I just knew. By midday I had her body and took to the vets for cremation.

My grief is huge, the loss so painful, I'm 42, 43 tomorrow live alone, have lived alone for 13 years and she was my only daily companion. She was killed outside my home, on her way back in to me.

I hate being at home, it's empty, it's the scene and constant reminder of what's happened, I just don't know how I'm going to ever recover. How will I ever get past this awful painful devastating time??