To Widower : You are very lucky just to receive a trickle of acknowledgement, interest or just someone to say "hello how are you." Why do I say this? Because I lost 3 members of my family three years ago and all within weeks of each other. My last surviving sister died last December 2018. I got NOTHING from extended family members, NO SYMPATHY, NO EMPATHY, NO CARD, NO HELP - NOTHING. All I got was LAUGHED AT, MOCKED and RIDICULED as these evil morons gatecrashed my youngest sister's funeral. Then to cap it all, I was threatened by them because I sent them a Christmas Card during Christmas 2016. So, like I said, you are so VERY LUCKY to have heard anything at all.
Do You Feel "abandoned" By Family And/or Friends
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To Widower : You are very lucky just to receive a trickle of acknowledgement, interest or just someone to say "hello how are you." Why do I say this? Because I lost 3 members of my family three years ago and all within weeks of each other. My last surviving sister died last December 2018. I got NOTHING from extended family members, NO SYMPATHY, NO EMPATHY, NO CARD, NO HELP - NOTHING. All I got was LAUGHED AT, MOCKED and RIDICULED as these evil morons gatecrashed my youngest sister's funeral. Then to cap it all, I was threatened by them because I sent them a Christmas Card during Christmas 2016. So, like I said, you are so VERY LUCKY to have heard anything at all.