I think if you initiate contacting him or send notes and inspirational cards he will call less because he will feel less alone. Offer time , but have boundaries when you are available. I am a widow too and I visit my family a lot. Its helpful. Also inviting hi. For dinner occasionally or have him cook a meal.
Widowed brother wants family to take the place of his wife
in Loss of a Spouse, Partner, or Significant Other
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I think if you initiate contacting him or send notes and inspirational cards he will call less because he will feel less alone. Offer time , but have boundaries when you are available. I am a widow too and I visit my family a lot. Its helpful. Also inviting hi. For dinner occasionally or have him cook a meal.