Hi all.
my boyfriend of 3 years passed away this year. I don’t know how I will ever get on with life. I thought that I was going to spend my life with him- we are both only 24 years old.
I am finding the transition from being in a relationship to being on my own so difficult. I don’t myself telling people who come up to me in bars that I’m still in a relationship. I feel so lonely though. I am the kind of person who much prefers being with someone than being on my own, so that is something I’m finding so hard after losing him. I know that I won’t be ready to move on for a long time, but even the thought of kissing someone else turns my stomach.
Will I ever feel like I can move on from this?
I am young and I would like to think that in a few years I might have a partner again to share my life with, to have a family with.. but I also feel like my late partner was the ‘one’ for me. And that I will never experience that kind of love again.
Will it ever feel ok to move on after the loss of a partner?
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Hi all.
my boyfriend of 3 years passed away this year. I don’t know how I will ever get on with life. I thought that I was going to spend my life with him- we are both only 24 years old.
I am finding the transition from being in a relationship to being on my own so difficult. I don’t myself telling people who come up to me in bars that I’m still in a relationship. I feel so lonely though. I am the kind of person who much prefers being with someone than being on my own, so that is something I’m finding so hard after losing him. I know that I won’t be ready to move on for a long time, but even the thought of kissing someone else turns my stomach.
Will I ever feel like I can move on from this?
I am young and I would like to think that in a few years I might have a partner again to share my life with, to have a family with.. but I also feel like my late partner was the ‘one’ for me. And that I will never experience that kind of love again.
any thoughts welcome… thank you