I realize all of this may not fit the situation where someone has broken up with you or pulled away due to grieving, but take what helps and discard the rest. As posted by Don Ho on loveshack.org : Reconciliation List I'm not a fan of second chances because they typically end up with the Dumpee getting dumped again and I think the Dumpees most often are holding on to false hope of getting back together. However, I have this list I was working on (based largely on another LS Members threa