Can someone explain "Leaning Into The Pain," and what I have to do? I lost my daughter fourteen months ago, and I think I'm loosing my mind. Between life continuing forward, bills, surviving children, working, etc., there's hardly time to grieve and I know I'm stuffing my feelings - yet, I don't know how to really get started. I'm better today than I was the days, weeks and months just after her passing;yet, I know there are feelings inside me I keep ignoring and I don't understand why. CharsMum