Enrico

Thank you , very helpful, it helps to ease the pain.

Thank you so much. I am relieved to hear that guilt is relatively common feeling, -Thankyou again, I must admit more recently I had been focussing more on the good memories. Thanks so much

My mother had a stroke a month ago. everybody says that I was good to my mother who was over 90> I took her shopping 1 day, I took her and then collected her and her friends to the local church card afternoon, AnD I would take her to cemetery once a week, and I would do other things. For some reason I feel guilty about what I didnt do for her, and what i didnt get around to doing for her, and about the silly arguments and bad moods that I had with her, notwithstanding that at the end of the day I would sit with her and all was ok after we recounted the events of the day.