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So its been about 2 1/2 months since her grandmother passed away from cancer. She ended the dating 2 weeks after prior to her grandmother passing. We had been having some issues anyways but over all things were great between us. So one day more than normal i was being put on the back burner more than normal. So naturally i got heated over this, and i called her on it. She appologised for that and had said she had too much on her plate, i tried to be understanding but i guess it wasnt enough. We talked about it and i tried to repair things, but it was too late. She said she was emotionally drained and had nothing left. Two weeks later i attended the funeral out of respect. Thats the last time we spoke. When leaving the funeral, i text saying "i love you" to which there was no reply. Later that she text me saying thank you for going to the funeral. I havent contacted since. She closed her facebook and just shut down. Am i doing the right thing by not calling her? Im here for her and she knows that, its just she hasnt once tried to call. What do you think?
Girlfriend Ended Our Relationship Two Weeks Before Her Grandma Died
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Well kayc, she never actually said not to contact her again, but when a girl doesnt turn to you for help during such a hard time, doesnt that kinda imply that? For two weeks after the funeral, we didnt talk by any means, i was letting her cool down. She was close to her gma, and i too became close to her gma. Her and I used to go together and visit her gma in the hospital many times. She lives an hour north of me and her gma lived here in town where i lived. There were even a few times that i went and saw her gma without my ex gf, and we had a blast. Her gma had cancer stage 4, it was spreading everywhere fast! So two weeks before she passed away, her and I had a small fight, she was being soo cold and mean towards me on the phone, so when i told her to please to talk to me a little better, she snapped! I cannot risk contacting her, i will loose all my nc progress wont I? She has my #, so if she wanted to she could text or call me right? I dunno if thats how the female mind works? Until then i simply fell off the face of the earth, besides here. I was there every step of the way, why did i get canned after such a small petty fight?