Lenay Rogus

Dear Angel, You are not alone. Guilt is one of the biggest problems for so many people. When I facilitated a grief group at the San Diego Hospice, guilt came up over and over again. So often people felt guilty because they were not present when their loved one died, but often our loved one won't let go when we are present. I've heard "I just stepped out of the room for a moment," or "I just went home to change my clothes." There were promises made. "I promised mom I would paint her nails before she died." Sometimes our guilt is all that is left. If we can hang on to it we can hold on to our loved one. My dear, It is time for you to have some peace and forgive yourself. Your mom loves you and doesn't want you to fret. I've been where you are. My mom died after I left the hospital. She was my mother and my father and meant the world to me. Live and embrace a wonderful life as you think of her because that is what she would want for you. Because guilt is such a great issue, I've created a Grief Release hypnosis download that will be on my website, lenayrogus.com by the end of February. The site is still under construction until then. It iwill be free for anyone who wants to listen to it with my best wishes for their healing.