Bebe11

I am sorry for your loss.  I also want to say that I applaud you for the way you handled the situation.  Your focus was on your child, and you didn't let any drama interfere with that!  I am glad you will get an opportunity to share your experience with the hospital administration.  I pray the administration will know exactly what to do to keep this from happening to any other families.  Good luck to you!  

I am very sorry for your losses.  I lost my 5 year old daughter 24 years ago, and it seems like yesterday.  Some of my best friends did not know how to act around me after her death.  I was very hurt because I didn't understand why everyone's life went on as normal and my life would never be the same.  I finally realized that my friends were just as hurt about the loss as I was.  It took some time to figure out my "new normal".  I will say that the only thing that keeps me going is knowing that I will see my daughter in heaven one day.  As a Christian, I have that promise from God.  Please read the articles from the other posters and seek help from a certified counselor.  My husband and I struggled for years over the death of our daughter, and our marriage only got better after we met with a counselor.  Thinking of you!

You have some great advice on here.  Just remember that seeking help is a good thing.  You might check out your local church.  Talk to the pastor about some options that might be available to you...in addition to some of the options on this post.  I am praying that God will comfort you during the times that are difficult!