Nessey18

My boyfriend lost his mom a couple weeks ago. At first he was fine. He didn't cry. He felt relieved. But now he keep violently raging at me? He's hit me and broken my stuff. I reacted by getting angry and breaking his stuff. Is it normal for things like that to happen? And he has severe mental health issues but is refusing to go to appointments to get medicine he needs. What do i now? How can i help him? She i leave since he's hit me? Open to any advice. Plz don't be mean. I've posted on another website and it wasn't helpful cuz they insulted my boyfriend and i.