I am new to this forum and was not aware it was available until I received my last Hospice newsletter. My husband was dianosed with pancreatic cancer on 12/10/2002 and passed away 2/18/03, he was 59. We had been married almost 11 months, however had been together 7 wonderful years. (Second marriage for both of us.) We have 5 children between us, he has 4, I have one and the are all awesome. Four are grown and married, one is in college and lives with her mom. The last 10 mondths and 2 weeks have taught me a lot about myself as well as others. It's very difficult, however counseling has helped as well as family and friends. I still expect Rich to walk through the door or come out of the bedroom wearing his old blue robe. Two people I know lost their spouses in December, both very unexpected. They have asked for advice and all I can tell them is to take one day at a time, your grief is your own and don't let anyone rush you through it. The ache will always be there. Thank you for letting me ramble. I only wish I had found this site sooner. I have read the previous posts and they have helped immensely. Thank you all for being there and sharing. Michele
