Roya

On 8/9/2006 at 10:59 AM, Haley said:

I guess we all should just stop right now for a few minutes and just think about life and how our loved ones would feel and what they would be saying to us right now. ( hey wait they are saying to us) on the way we are behaving. Lets all ask our selves would we be doing this stuff like drinking and smoking and being crazy NO!!!!!! What would we be doing if they were still here with us? Not what we are doing now to hurt our bodys. I know we are all hurting but puting more pain in to our bodies is not the way to go. We need to all grow up and smell the roses about life at least we are breathing, and not suffering like they or some of them were (my MOM) I believe thast there is other ways to destress I don't have the answers but I am searching anybody have some answers please feel free to share with us. I have tried eating and sleeping and working out in the gym I am also at a lost and I am turning to the bad stuff also like drinking almost everyday I am trying to stop cold turkey and that is a struggle daily. I try to think if MOM would like and approve what I am doing right and I can tell you all right now we are all not doing the right thing if we are having to second guess our selves.

 

Please forgive me for coming out and saying what I feel but hey maybe it will get us all thinking in the right way.

 

I am willing to take the advice or straight up talk from any body that will talk and listen. You know what seems like an ideal thing is that all of us who talk all the time or just everybody and anybody going through what we are all going through and get together like a reunion type thing just so that we alkl can talk in person and get to see how we all are doing. I also think that it would or could even help us all in some way. Just a suggestion or if this already happens let me know.

 

Thanks

Haley

I find that drawing and painting helps me too. I also call the helpline from the funeral home. Going to the support group and getting to know people who feel like me helps too.

I am the same. I have abandonment issues and it is part of the side effects that I do things that are not good for me such as overeating or procrastinating.

I was eating so healthy for the last 5 years and now I started eating sugar and as I am typing this I like to go to the store and eat what is out of my eaing plan. I have a cold and I should be eating healthy but I do not want to. On one hand I understand it is thanksgiving and family members who should be here for me are not even caring.

When I called the helpline for the 2nd time my favorite therapist answered the phone.