My bf of 1 year just lost his younger brother. He is so broken right now. I am trying to be there for him when he needs to vent, share memories, cry, be angry. Problem is I’m his main target for the anger. I have kids and he can’t stand to be around them any more because their wining over trivial things makes him angry and hateful. Before this he was struggling because his father is dying. He was already taking his anger out on me because of his fathers cancer but now his brother passed and he is a mess and he will likely be soon burying his father. I’m trying to hang in there because I love him but my kids don’t deserve his anger and it’s becoming so mentally destructive for me. He just drinks until he is incoherent and calls me to yell at me. What can I do?
