Hi, about three months ago i lost my father through heart attack. It was a very sudden death because he has always been very healthy and up until the moment he died he didn’t show any signs of physical pain other than the few complaints he had about his chest feeling pain. I didn’t react to the whole ordeal really well, it changed my life completely. His death made me feel awfully conscious about death and full of “who’s gonna be next” thoughts, and i feel physically tired of it. I think it’s the fact that i now realize that death is real and it’s a universal experience that makes it really unsettling for me, i can’t help myself but to fear night time because of it, i just don’t feel safe. It is worth mentioning that a day before my father passed, we were celebrating a family function. This past few days it has dawned on me that you really don’t know what’s coming towards you. He was laughing and smiling yesterday while enjoying home made meals, yet he’s no longer with us the next day. Part of me is also very uncomfortable with the thought of what my father had to experience in the last 24 hours of his life. On the morning of the day he died, he was visibly very concerned of something, he followed everyone everywhere, he even called for a day off from his office because he felt like something is off. Apparently something really is going on, and he died suddenly, with no warnings, nothing. Now, whenever i feel worry building up inside of me, it reminds me of death, of what happened to my father, i’m scared it might happen to me too, i am now 19 years old. Has anyone ever experienced something similar? please share your experience because i feel like i’m going insane, thank you so much!