jane99
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Ya, that's kinda it. The worst part is that to try to talk to anyone about any feeling unless they are a third party that doesn't know anything, it turns into an arguement. Which in turn just makes me feel free worse because I do not even feel I can turn to my family when I need them most.
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I don't know if I am being selfish and feeling sorry for myself or what? Before I lost my father I thought him and I where really close, now it seems like like every time I turn a corner something happens that seems to take that away. ?? Does anyone else have a similair experiences??
Grief Or Selfishness
in Loss of a Parent or Grandparent
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The correspondce alone to the post is helping. He died end of Febraury of 2007, I did not find out he was sick until Dec 2006 and I was expecting a lot more time -- 5 years. He was a very private person, but I think to myself that maybe if he was not private about his sickness we would of had more time for more options......so when I do talk freely about him I think others get mad because he was private. It's so confusing at times.