This December it will be 10 years since my older brother (Matt) passed away. It seems like a long time, but as I'm sure some of you know, it realy is not. My brother passed away December 26, 1998. The last time I saw him was Christmas day. I was in the Navy at the time and was going to be shipping out to Rota, Spain after my holiday leave. My oldest brother made Matt and I hug each other good bye before Matt went back to his apartment because he knew it would be a long time until we saw each other again. Matt and I were always close and usually just made a smart ass comment to eachother or shook hands before parting ways, but this time we ackwardly hugged each other. At the time I was a little annoyed at my oldest brother for making us hug, but now it is something I could never repay him for. Not many people get to actually hug thier loved one goodbye. Matt and I were always very close to eachother. He was the charasmatic, social risk taker, and I was the thoughtful voice of reason. Together we got eachother both into and out of a lot of trouble. We were best friends, and, at times, worst enemies. When I reluctantly hugged him goodbye on Christmas day, I had no idea it would be the last hug. The morning after Christmas I decided to drive back to base. Before going back to base, I planned on meeting some friends at the local mall. My friends and I met and had lunch together and I was going to follow them back to thier house, but the post christmas traffic was crazy and we ended up loosing each other. I actually ended up going in the direction of my brothers apartment, and for a moment, considered just going there and hanging out with him or even just staying over night with him until the post christmas traffic cleared up. After contemplating this, I decided that it would be best if I'd just continue toward base. Sometimes I think to myself that, if I had decided to go to my brother's apartment, he wouldn't have died that night. The night after Christmas my brother decided to have a few friends over to his apartment just to hang out and drink. One of his friends had some heroine and offered it to my brother. Being the risk taker that he was, he snorted some and ended up overdosing and passing away that night. His friends say that they thought he just fell asleep, so they picked him up, layed him on the couch, put a blanket over him and left. My parents and I find it suspicious that an entire group of people would suddenly decide to leave a party all at the same time. At my brother's viewing one of the girls that was at his party that night said that my brother came out of the bathroom upset and said that he didn't feel good. Then he collapsed and they put him on the couch. My parents hired a private investigator who found that the toxicology results from my brother's autopsy suggest that he had so much heroine in his body that he wouldn't have even been able to walk from the bathroom, all the way down the hallway, and into the room where everyone else was. Also, from the photographs of my brother's body lying on the couch, an investigator stated that my brother couldn't have possibly layed down on the couch himself. His body was positioned in such a way that suggested someone else placed him on the couch. I think that his friend's, including the drug dealer friend that gave him the heroine, freaked out when they saw Matt going through an overdose. I think they picked him up off the floor, placed him on the couch, and promptly left. The issue I've been dealing with since my brother died, is that I would like to know the truth. Mysteriously, a few years after my brother died, my parents recied an envelope through the mail with no return postage address. In the envelope was a news paper clipping. The article that was highlighted was about a man who was left to die of an overdose in the same manner that my brother died. This mysterious letter was given to the private investigator. Unfortunetly noone is willing to look further into my brother's case. The local law enforcement just chalked my brother's death up to another twenty something kid that OD'ed on heroine. The frustration is overwhelming. It would be great just to find out for a fact whether our suspicions are right or wrong. There are a lot of other issues I am going through, related to my brother's death. I'll spare you them for now. I plan on posting more when I am moved to. I am sorry that you all are experiencing the loss of a sibling as I am. I wish none of us had to be in this forum right now. Until later.