Angie2004 Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 My dog of 17 1/2 years Montey passed away right in front of my eyes on Friday January 2nd, 2004. He was my best friend, my other half, my everything...he still is. I have my moments of strength and then I just fall apart. I know this is all normal, but it just hurts so badly. In his last two months of life he was extremely ill and I gave up everything..work and school..to care for him around the clock. I was with him literally all the time for so long and now he's gone. Every little thing in my house reminds me of him and it hurts so so badly. I know he's no longer suffering but I miss him more than I ever knew was possible. I wake up and wonder why..what's the point without him?I feel guilty for smiling, I feel guilty for doing anything..when I know he wouldn't want me to be this way. I understand all the 'rational' stuff, but it doesn't matter to me right now.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poodlemom Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 http://www.petloss.com/muns.htmhttp://www.pet-loss.net/Angie, these are two web sites that helped me tremendously. Especially the second one. I even ordered her book. I hear your pain. You are feeling and that is good. You have to feel to heal. It takes a special person to allow feelings. That shows strength. I am told that the pain gets less so that we are able to feel pleasure from knowing our loved ones. This way they can still be a part of our life. So hang in there. You are a beautiful person.Please keep in contact.Hugs,Kathy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angie2004 Posted January 6, 2004 Author Report Share Posted January 6, 2004 Thank you so much for your response Kathy...what you said makes sense. I feel like I'm getting stronger each passing moment and am coming to peace with his new phase of life. It hurts more than words can describe, but I am finding sources of comfort here and there, which is better than before. Your response is one example of this...thank you so much for taking the time to respond. I hope you are keeping well as well. Take care.-Angie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nannsies Posted January 20, 2004 Report Share Posted January 20, 2004 Dear Angie and Kathy,My heart goes out to the two of you.You are beautiful and wonderful people to love animals so much.I love animals too.Learning to live with the loss of our beloved furbabies does get easier over time.I know how bad it hurts.I too have lost many many kitties over the past 3 years.I have lost multiples at one times as well.I know how bad the pain is at times.I don't know what else to say except that my thoughts and prayers are with you both at this most difficult time. And that I understand what you are going through.I lost 14 cats and kittens last year that I rescued.I also lost 3 more feral outside kitties. And even if I could not even touch 2 of them or even get close to them...I loved them and I am deeply saddened by their loss. As long as they hung around there was a chance I could befriend them.But good news. One of the outside kitties reappeared today and I was able to get her in the house with me. She is thin and weak but she is eating and responding to love. I am hoping she makes a speedy recovery and will consent to being a member of my household/cat shelter.Love and Life,Nannsies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nannsies Posted January 20, 2004 Report Share Posted January 20, 2004 I forgot to tell you about this other pet grief site.It is In-Memory-Of-Pets.com.Sorry I don't know how to make it so all you have to do is click on it.Nannsies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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