I am new to this so here it goes- My son in law was killed instantly in a motorcycle accident on September 9-08 . My daughter was pregnant with her 5th child. He was the man of her dreams. Educated,smart,a joy as a son in law! Great Dad and husband. They were living in Morrisville,Mo. We were living in Lone Jack,Mo. I had been a hairdresser at the same salon for 30 years-loved it! My husband and I decided we should move down to help her and the kids. Mean while my son-28 moved down to help her out too. He was diagnosed with Hodgkins Lymphoma in December 08'. Two surgeries later-10 chemos and 14 radiations. We sold our home and bought one here in Morrisville in May of 09'. We all eat togrther and help with the kids ages 11-9-5-3 and now 11 months.
How do I move on and have a life when both of my kids are still hurting. I am a babysitter/nanny/cook. I do love my grandkids and don't want a pity party- just want to be happy again.
I am willing to hear any advice.
Vicki