Just want you to know that it has been about a year and a half since my wonderful husband passed and I still celebrate our anniversary and his birthday by going out to his favorite restaurant with a friend or two. Yes, some think I'm crazy, but it makes me feel good to honor him this way. I plan on doing it always. I am fortunate to have some friends who underatand that I am still greiving, and will never "get over" his death. I am slowly moving forward, but will never forget how special he and our marriage was. The goal is to remember with less pain. That may still take quite some time.