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It was a card, never signed, But it stated the following. I helps me, and I thought everyone else too Cherish the memories Hold on to the hope Rest when your weary Take time to grieve Let your heart heal Thinking of you

Good for you Debi! I think your husband would have wanted that. I was looking at pictures on Teresa FB page. She always posted positive affirmations on her wall. The ones I found were "move on". Life is too short. Ect. My friend talked to me last night and hasn't heard Teresa in the last few days. Which means she probably went to the light. And now she's an angel made of 100 percent love. Im going to see someone. I feel she would have wanted me to move on. They don't know grief in heaven just joy and love. So I owe it to her and myself to get my head straight. Just because you miss them doesn't me you can't be happy. Just because you cry over them doesn't mean your not moving on. Your just being human. I'm sure my tears in the next few months will fill a gallon bucket of salt. But we all should be blessed we have had angels on earth as our mate. I thank you for keeping in touch. This is a great group. God bless.

Thank you so much for the encouraging words. Tommor I thkn I will look into grief counseling. Has any found any benefit to that?

This is amazing. You think nobody goes through what you are going through . I'm also sorry for your loss Brad and Debi. I feel lucky in some ways. My wife and are very spiritual. We believe in angels, and parallel planes to our universe, etc. So we have a couple of close friends that are mediums. A few days after her death, she called me said Teresa is trying to communicate with you. She won't leave me alone. And a couple of strange things happened days after. I spent 3 and 1/2 hours talking with Teresa through Lindsey. I now know she is happy and healthy. Watching over me and my grand children and daughter. She told me that that she is good. Don't be sad. She even explained to me what was going on with the paramedics, and I haven't told any one that. We have our wedding song that I was not going to put in her memorial video, an she told me she wants it in. After that phone call I was at peace. I know what she went thought when she died, and now she is so happy. And she wants me to buy a big pick up truck, and be free, and move on. We were suppose to pick up a minivan we bought that following week. I thank God that I had that. It doesn't make missing here any easier, but to know she is happy. That was my goal in her life. I pary that each of you will find that kind of peace in your grief. I'm going to send you a link to a video for her at her celebration of life party. She didn't want a funeral where everybody cried.. So we had a huge party at a local bar. It was tough, but wonderful. The the drinking helped. I hope this video will show you what a special person she was, an angel here on earth. Thanks again for the lovely support. -Jim

Hello, My wife passed away last saturday. She died in her sleep. We are only 47. She was much too young. My emotions are all over the place. I can't do anything we did. we were really close, did everything together. Friends want to help. But I don't want to talk. I know she is in a better place, and happy. But she was with me for 22 years everyday. We talked everyday. It's so silent. I can't imagine this getting easier. I;m sad, angry and happy for her. Thanks Jim