Scottsgirl, I'm sorry it's been a few days for my reply, yesterday was a very tough day for some reason so I secluded myself. Yes I returned to work 3 days after Mat's passing, begrudgingly of course because I am a single mom and need to pay bills. No, it's not been easy and honestly I wish I could take time off to mourn, to cry, to scream, to sit in silence... unfortunately that day has not been available to me yet. Maybe it's what's meant to be, I don't know but I'm doing what has to be done. The last week has been extremely difficult though. I find I'm crying at the drop of a dime, Mat is constantly on my mind and I'm missing his presence immensely. I'm reading and re-reading the last text messages between he and I and it's been killing me. Tonight marks 4 weeks since I last held his warm hand and heard him say he loves me. It is still so raw, so unreal... Mat was my soulmate, I can't believe he's gone... I want him healthy and here with me so much!