The dream I had before I met him was very frightening, as I had mentioned earlier,- I had been very sick and after I had the dream I slept with the lights on for the next three nights. The dream I had that alerted me to the fact that things might not be ok with him was not so- he quoted me on two things that I had said during the time we were together and he had sooty energy at first. He and I walked out into the light and he took his hand and put light on my upper chest by my collarbone and I reached over and grasped his other hand. I have never felt the kind of love I felt when he did this and as we were standing in the light, I realized he was transformed and was healed and well. That would have been about a month before he passed, so you see he was alive and had communicated. I had a dream the other night and I was walking through a place he liked to be and as I looked at my reflection in the water, I realized I was actually looking up at myself through the water and yet he was standing behind me and I heard him say "We need to get to the bottom of this." I walked over to a group of trees and again, he was behind me and said the same thing. Not sure yet what was meant by what he said, but I hope I will find out.
I think that I have always had this, but it really became prominent when I got sick all those years ago. The one thing that seems to be a commonality with these type of "dreams" is the person who presents in them is either very ill, heavily medicated, doing drugs, or passed over to the other side. My current partner's mother came to me just as I woke up at 4 in the morning and I was standing behind her as she sat in her chair, being engulfed in flames. It was so in my face that I had to wake him and tell him what I was seeing. He was irritated with me and yet, a week later his mother called him out of the blue (there had been some family dynamics where he was keeping his distance) and told him her electricity had shut down. He went over to her house and the coffee pot had shorted out, and her smoke detector batteries were all dead and non-operative. Needless to say, his mom was still alive, but had an addiction to prescription meds. He realized what I had seen and that there was a reason for it.
My own aunt, who had passed on, came to me and was telling me not to be so harsh about something. Her voice, her appearance- everything- there was no mistaking it was her.
My current partner was not so amused when the other man passed on his birthday. The strange thing is that the man from my past, on the night we met, asked my full name, date of birth and birthplace earlier in the evening. He later walked with me over to an old hotel and by chance we walked inside the lobby and looking into the mirror, we looked at each others' reflections and he said my full name and my date of birth and where I had been born, and then his full name date of birth and where he had been born. He turned and looked directly at me and told me that I would always remember this and he was right. Some people believe in reincarnation, I believe in at least a pre-existence, and I know he and I were together.