Today is my 21st wedding anniversary. It's also been 1 month to the day that I lost my soul mate, best friend, and the love of my life. I feel like a shell of a person walking and talking but not really there. Sometimes I even wonder if that life was a dream or if this life I am living now is a nightmare.
I honestly have moments where I feel like I can't survive without him but I get up, I eat at least once a day, I take a bath, check my glucose, take my shots, do the housework and the cooking that I am able to do, I go to the grocery store, pay the bills, do the laundry, and I have been going through all Brian's belonging. For every item that leaves the house I feel like I lose him again. I had to take the sacks of his clothes and shoes to my daughters home because I just couldn't give them away.
I may feel like I'm dying inside but only my pillows know the wracking sobs that happen at bedtime when he isn't there, the house is empty and quiet, and I don't here his content breathing in sleep.