Guest Tonya Burden Posted December 30, 2005 Report Share Posted December 30, 2005 My Mother past away June 19th,2005. (it was Fathers day) My sister and I were adopted when we were babies. We were adopted by my biological fathers, sister. She was my best friend and I miss her so much. She was only 56 when she died and it was a sudden death; I was at my parents house fixing my Dad dinner for Fathers day and about 5:00 pm we left to go home and get ready for church and my aunt called and said something is wrong with your Mom we have called an ambulance you might want to come back out to the house!!! I told her I would just meet them at the hospital . My Mom was fine when I left so I just didn't think it was that serious. My Dad called back and said come and get me and take me up to the hospital and I said just ride with my aunt who was already at his house; then he said sis there is somethingbad wrong with your Mom!! I told him to let me talk to her and he said no she can't talk , I told him to give the phone to my aunt and I told my aunt to put the phone up to her ear and she did, I told my Mom that I loved her and I would see her at the hospital and she said I can't breathe,Ican't breathe. That would be the last thing I would hear my mother say because she died on the way to the hospital of an anurizum in her pancreas. I did everything with my Mom. My kids were very close to her. There is never a minute of the day I don't think of her. Her side of the family which is really blood doesn't even call or talk to us and before her death we did everything with them we were all very close. I thought they would be there for us but there not. I have not just lost my Mother, my bestfriend,but I have lost all the gatherings we had with family.On Christmas one of my Mom's sisters did call she had worked this Christmas but she said that everybody else(meanig my Mom's other 2 sisters and 3 brothers and their families)was having Christmas dinner together. My sister and me our Father and ourkids and husbands stayed home. No one sent a card or made sure we were okay. I feel like we have been forgotten. I wish my Mom was here so bad.I have been on medicine because I couldn't function. I got off the medicine because I couldn't function . What now ???? I( feel like I am going crazy!! WILL I EVER BE HAPPY AGAIN??????????? What can I do???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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