Here I am again, already up after just a few hours' sleep. (and I'm lucky if it's a few).
Yes kayc, just like Gwen says I live in Italy (South) and have been here since 1993. Before that I lived in London-G. B. where I grew up - was born there.
This is a beautiful country and over the years, thanks to my husband we have visited so many fantastic places and now I know this country much better than I ever knew England. I also feel now more Italian than British but I think that's normal. I got married and have created a family here even though now the person who helped me make this happen is gone. Oh, it just can't be possible, I continue saying to myself. My husband was the only one whom I really ever loved in my life and who ever loved me. We had really become 1 person. We shared everything together, oh we did have our bad moments, a time when it seemed that we were on the verge of separating but there was that 'special something' that kept us tied together because we were a whole entity, impossible to break up no matter what. I get so angry at times, especially when I'm alone in the car, for example, while I am driving into town, I suddenly start shouting to myself and'making strange noises' with my voice. Am I going crazy? Talking about cars I can honestly say that my love was the engine of the family. If you take away the engine from a car, can the car still go on?
I had to pause for a bit, bacause I was starting to break down. You know I used to call my husband, teasingly, a walking enciclopedia. He could have a discussion with you about every single topic you can think of in the world. I really learned so much from him and I am grateful (in this deep sorrow I am going through) that he came into my life. To think that when we first met all the girls in town were after him (very handsome, charming and a gentleman), I didn't think he'd even look at me!
Getting back to the 'music' discussion, in this period of deep suffering, I have discovered the beautiful, incredible voice of Lady Gaga (normally, not my type of music), but her song: I'll never love again- just says it all. I have now learned how to sing and play it on my electronic piano even though some days I just can't!!! I don't know why but the 'real' piano we have has become unbearable for me to use. Maybe because we had bought it together for our 25th anniversary? Oh, and another thing I haven't been able to do is to go inside his (our) car, I have to ask my daughter to turn on the engine every now and then so as not to let the battery go flat. I should sell it but it would seem like 'letting him go' even more,because that car is part of him. Oh, how I miss you, my love, my best friend, my lover, my everything. 💔