Woke up again today hoping it was terrrible nightmare, but no, still the same pain in the pit of my stomach. Bitterly cold, ran out to garage/workshop for my morining smoke. Yep, even with Kates death, smoking holds some comfort. I remember Kates doctor telling me that I should quit "cause the same could happen to you". How I wish that would come true. Kate was an avid gardner and stoneware potter. Her gardens are covered in 2' of snow right now. Don't what the hell I'm supposed to do come Spring. Every year, she always wanted to expand them. I'd dig and till up the earth add fresh soil and she'd plant away with her new finds of perennials. I always thought the bigger the gardens, the less lawn for me to cut :-). The gardens were hers and I did the lawn. The nicer the grass was, the better her gardens looked, and vise versa. I know nothing about flowers. When she got into pottery, I set her up in my workshop. How the guys at work teased me. "A mans workshop is his domain" etc. I wouldnt of had it any other way. On days like this, we'd both be out there, her throwing pots on her wheel, and me tinkering with a dozen projects and repair jobs. Some times I'd even complete them :-). I go out there now and her pottery wheel is empty, shelves lined with pots ready to fired in the kiln. Tubs of different glazes with funky names. Lord how I miss her Scotty