micaylarose15 Posted May 22, 2020 Report Share Posted May 22, 2020 Hi everyone, My boyfriends mother passed away in January to stage 4 pancreatic cancer. She was his rock. He has been very depressed since it happened, and just two days ago he told me he is no longer in love with me. When i asked him how long he has felt this way he said since his mom died, but that it wasn’t just because of his mom. My boyfriend never talks about his feelings. He rarely brought up anything about his mom to me. I never forced it, but always let him know I was there. Before his mom passed, he was so in love with me, consistently for 4 years. It’s so hard for me to believe that he really just doesn’t want to be with me because he isn’t in love with me. I am not trying to give myself false hope, but it just doesn’t make sense to me. He told me when we broke up, that i am his best friend, and he didn’t want to lose me in his life. He told me we can still talk, and facetime, and go do things with eachother, but he also told me that he doesn’t see himself every being in love with me again. Then he kept saying he was confused and he didn’t know. I don’t know if he just was trying to make me feel better by saying “i don’t know” instead of plain no but I felt like if someone isn’t in love anymore, no matter how much they care about someone, they don’t offer to still talk, or see eachother. He kissed me about 7 times, hugged me, squeezed me. When i was leaving his house, he told me that this was almost just as hard as losing his mom. We texted later and he told me it’s been one of the hardest days of his life. I am just so confused and heartbroken. I understand he needs time to grieve, but i am so scared that we seriously will not get back together ever again. I was going to marry this man. We were one week away from moving into our first apartment together. I am so distraught. My entire life has been flipped upside down. Has anyone been in either side of this? Is there any hope? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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