Debbie,
Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words. I feel some remorse for 'unloading' my grief on others here, but I have no where else to turn. I can hardly read posts in these forums, because the grief of others simply overwhelms me. But, I have browsed these forums, so I have some idea of the grief that lurks among us. Yes I am surprised at the persistence of grief. I keep thinking that I am supposed to learn from this experience, but then I think, learn what? I find myself swimming in raw emotion, and sometimes I don't know what to make of it.
To be honest, my current grief is less about my Mom, and more about the woman I recently bonded to. Just last night I phoned her and began to understand she wants to go her own way.
Thank you for mentioning the obvious, that after a heart attack it's wise to see a doctor. It's only when someone cares, that I'm prompted to take any action. Made an appointment with my doctor after I read your post this morning.
I saw a counselor several times about my grief and loss, but then stopped going. Figured I was getting over it. Well, I sure got that wrong. Now I see that I really do need the help. Plenty more pain before I get through this. God grant that I learn something. Thanks again.
Ron B.