Hi Shelley,
There is no time limit on grief Hun. And there is many times delayed grief. And also you will cycle through the stages of grief. I lost my Mom to Murder at age 15. I am 39 now and very my much still at the beginning most days. I was sexually abused and raped for 10yrs by my stepfather prior to him killing her. I have depression, bipolar, flashbacks, anxiety etc... And am in therapy and on many meds... Depakote, Saphris, Remeron, Topamax, Klonopin, Seroquel, and Lexapro. It took a long time to get the right "cocktail" of meds and still I have trouble. I was just taken off Wellbutrin and put on the Lexapro. Be honest with your dr Hun. And be easy on yourself... Grief, abuse, depression is a lot to manage. One day one minute at a time. I'm there with you. Message me anytime. ((((Gentle hugs)))) if you want them.
God bless.