First, I want to thank each and every one of you who replied to me.
I read all of the responses in detail and cannot express what your feedback means to me.
To help put it in perspective, this is the first and only dialogue I have had with others who have experienced this devastation and I sincerely mean it when I say yours is the only feedback I respect and take to heart.
I will post separately about this, but this has broken me to the point I have r lost relationships with other family members. As an example, my parents…whom I am their only child and have had an incredibly close relationship with them my entire life, saw such a change in home (which I cannot help), the literally told me to “get over it.” , which hurt me as much as anythint in my entire life.
Consequently when I say I have been isolation, the past 30 holidays we hosted at our house with large family gatherings, expressing our love to one another and basing bonding as a family.
However the pad two Thanksgivings. Christmas’, etc, I have literally sat at home alone while the rest of my family celebrated together. It is surreal to me and I cannot believe it’s happening.
To the point, I have made an extreme decision that is beyond life-changing.
Again I will conduct a separate post as to what my plans are, but feel it’s safe you say you will all find it extremely interesting.
The good news is, after my wife passed, I truly had an epiphany that showed me the reason I even exist and consequently have to decided to live out my remaining days under this plan (and personally feel I am blessed to understand my true meaning).
More to come and I really appreciate you all allowing me to share my story as I have no one else.