Boho-Soul Posted September 11, 2022 Report Share Posted September 11, 2022 My neighbor Suzanne connected with me when my husband died. She came over within days of Michael's death as she saw the emergency vehicles in the cul-de-sac and new something happened. We aren't close and only chatted briefly over the years, as our lives are different. She's busy raising 2 boys, I'm an empty nester. Just moments ago another neighbor came to my door to let me know Suzanne's husband was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer this summer and now has days to live. I had know idea as they were on vacation the last few months to have one last summer together. I feel like I'm in mild shock, not a paralyzing shock that hit me when Michael died, but I feel it. It's also a bit of a trigger *sigh* I just hope I can support her, even if that just mean to be a listening ear. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted September 11, 2022 Report Share Posted September 11, 2022 I've no doubt you will be a great listening ear. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boho-Soul Posted September 11, 2022 Author Report Share Posted September 11, 2022 Thx kayc, I just have to be mindful so it doesn't affect me in an adverse way. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted September 11, 2022 Report Share Posted September 11, 2022 Understood. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boho-Soul Posted September 12, 2022 Author Report Share Posted September 12, 2022 I saw lots of cars parked in my cul-de-sac late last night so kind of knew something was happening. My neighbour's husband passed away last night. It brings back my early moments of shock and grief. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kayc Posted September 12, 2022 Report Share Posted September 12, 2022 I am so sorry. So horrible for his widow. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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