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Princesskiki,

I have had people tear up and I usually tear up too. Aside from my immediate family I have never had someone cry, but I can only guess how that would feel. Trying to comfort them, while you feel they should be comforting you! Life is full of strange experiences, isn't it?

Hugs,

Shell

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PrincessKiki,

Yes, that's how I react. I jump into this strong person who can fix the world. Then, when I am home alone, I fall apart. I feel the need to be strong for everyone else. What about us? I wish I had answers. I helps me just to know that they haven't forgotten about my Mom. I'm sorry for your loss. I'm glad you've found this place also. It's a God send.

Missing my Mom,

Trudy

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Hi Princesskiki,

I would like to say that I am sorry about your loss and if you need a listening ear I have two good ones.... I usually have it where people approach me and are feeling that I am being strong and they are trying to let me know it is all right to cry.. I usually do most of my crying in private away from friends, family and others.... Take care Shelley

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  • 2 weeks later...

Hi Princesskiki,

Last week at my therapists office, as I was crying, she started crying! It felt wierd because I need HER to be strong for me! She is such a wonderful person, but to be honest, I was a little bothered by it. I didn't know what to do...except cry along with her!

Lori

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When I am talking to someone, they start to cry. I feel like they are letting me know it's ok to cry and let it out. They have already been through what I am going through. I don't have to stuff it back in. Those people who rub your arm and say "You'll get over it". You know, the ones you want to punch.

I guess this is just another point of how we are all in this together and yet we all grieve differently.

Missing my Mom,

Trudy

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