Lynnettem123 Posted December 2, 2010 Report Share Posted December 2, 2010 I have lost two sons to Cancer. One 14 years ago at age 11 and one 2 years ago at age 7. I have dreams about the son I lost two years ago but never see his face. I see the back of him and he is always running away and when I get a glimpse of him it is the face of my son that died 14 years ago. I am wondering if anyone has had the same issue. I would like to know if this is an issue that is common. Journey on Online grief social network The journey of Loss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunstreet Posted December 9, 2010 Report Share Posted December 9, 2010 I just wanted to let you know how very sorry I am for your loss. I can not relate to your dream. I don't know if it is normal. I just felt a need to let you know I heard you and I am so sorry for your loss. Blessings and Courage, Carol Ann Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starby Posted December 11, 2010 Report Share Posted December 11, 2010 Lynette I'm so sorry for your losses, I don't know about the dream either but I have a feeling it is common. I just wanted to reach out because it is hard enough to lose one child but two is unspeakable. My niece lost her baby a few weeks ago and she is still in terrible grief. I'm thimking of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hello123 Posted December 23, 2010 Report Share Posted December 23, 2010 Lynette im so so sorry for your losses, my dad died a few months ago and although i posted about seeing his face that was only the once and the majority of times I had a dream it would be like he was a robot, weird like it was him but wasnt really him I cant explain it. I could see him but not really make out his face and he wouldnt be alive in my dream Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suzie816 Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 Lynette,I am so very sorry for your loss. I too lost my beloved son, Rob, in August 2009. I prayed and prayed to dream of him and only twice I have. About two weeks ago I finally had a dream about him and I saw him at the age of his death (24 years), and he looked soooo wonderful, but at the end of my dream he was a little boy and i just told him how much I loved him. I hope this happens for you. It was probably the first time I felt some peace. It was a feeling I hoped to have. He is always in my thoughts and my heart. I wish this for you. If you are a reader, please read the book The Shack. A friend of mine gave it to me in August 09, I read it but was too emotional to accept the message. I re-read it this month and I had this dream of my son, it was all I was wishing for. Wishing you peace. Your friend in sorrow Sue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blondie Posted March 20, 2011 Report Share Posted March 20, 2011 I know another lady who lost two sons exactly the same ages of your two precious boys.Of a different illness though to your boys,but the same illness killed them to.They would be late teens early twenties now I think.If you want me to put you in touch with her send me a PM. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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