DebFromLodi Posted February 2, 2012 Report Share Posted February 2, 2012 My daughter and I will take flowers to her grave today. I just can't believe that life has gone on without her. I had her in my life for over 50 years. When her life ended, so should have ours. Doesn't that say that she was not very important? I just go on day to day. I laugh and just go about my business, though i do think of her every single day. I love and miss her more than i can say. She was my mom, my best friend. I am so sad without her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
niamh Posted February 2, 2012 Report Share Posted February 2, 2012 ((HUGS)) to you Deb,it's an extra tough day I'm sure. I too find it hard to grasp the world and life just carrying on without my Dad.I know I look ok on the outside but there are many tears still at night when I go to bed,wishing I could turn back time and just hang out with him. Hope you get through the day "ok" for want of a better word Niamh Xo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DebFromLodi Posted February 3, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2012 Thank you for taking the time to write to me. it means alot. The day was "fine" and we took really nice flowers to the cemetery. I had my cry early in the morning and today is a new day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Babypod Posted February 9, 2012 Report Share Posted February 9, 2012 Deb - I am so sorry. We will be 10 months on the 11th. I can't believe it has been that long. I still feel her hands in mine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emptyinside Posted February 13, 2012 Report Share Posted February 13, 2012 Deb, I am sorry. How are you today? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DebFromLodi Posted February 13, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2012 You know, I am doing pretty good. I hate admitting that, but it is true. Time goes by and things seem to get easier, for lack of a better word. Certain dates will always be hard and, God wiling, I will never completely get over this hurt. I don't ever want February 2 to be just another day. I love you Mom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mduwyenie Posted February 15, 2012 Report Share Posted February 15, 2012 I have not been on here for quite sometime, but I know that this was very useful help for me! I had been struggling with personal issues myself, but always had that urge to want to talk with my mom who has been gone for just under five years now. I didn't have anyone to talk with that wasn't going to be judgmental or could really be there for me as a mother figure. I just want to say that the pain doesn't ever go away not even with time. It's hard yes I agree but we will never have our mom, until we too cross over, but there are plenty of people in the same situation that can lend a listen ear and provide comfort when your feeling blue. Keep up the strength to continue living for your own family! We are all here if you need us, as you are here when we need you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DebFromLodi Posted February 16, 2012 Author Report Share Posted February 16, 2012 Thank you for your kind words. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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