swedishfish Posted May 30, 2012 Report Share Posted May 30, 2012 One of my family members is about to lose her father to a deadly cancer. It's been a long time since his diagnosis, but his health is now on the fast decline and she is staring reality in the face. I have told her that I am here for her no matter what she needs, any time. Is there anything else I can do for her in this time? It seems as if there is nothing appropriate to say in this time, so I know I tell her all the time I am here for her, and try not to bring him up unless she does. Any thoughts? It seems like he only has a few weeks left.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MartyT Posted May 30, 2012 Report Share Posted May 30, 2012 Dear one, I'm so sorry to learn about the serious illness threatening the life of your family member's father ~ and how good of you to be looking for ways to be supportive. I'd like to point you to some resources that you may find helpful at this time: Article, Coping As You Anticipate a Loss Article, Anticipatory Grief: A Family-Centered Approach Website, Dying to Help: Advice on Helping the Dying and Their Caregivers Book, The Four Things That Matter Most: A Book About Living by Ira Byock, MD Comprehensive List of Helpful Care Giving Resources: Care Giving Links Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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