Dear Joe, I have that same poem from Hospice of the Valley and read it a lot. It reminds me that I will see him again. My Charlie died of prostate cancer this past Oct, 2004 after a 7 year battle. Hospice of the Valley were wonderful and made his last days as peacfull and comfortable as possible. Like you we were married a long time, 46 years, and I am having a hard time getting over the emptiness now in my life. I know my husband would not of wanted me to be in so much pain and would want me to move on with my life, but sometimes life holds no purpose without the one who shared it with you for all those years. My children are great, they do all they can to make things easier, safer, and better for me, but they will never take the place of their father in my daily journey. Your wife sounds like a great, caring person who only wanted you to have peace with her passing, hold on to that thought and she will know you are honoring her memory. Don't be angry, God has called our loved ones home and I do feel they are in a much better place and are waiting for us, and like the poem says " the joy to see us come." Grace ONLY YOU 7/1/38 -10/20/04