shhh65 Posted May 24, 2008 Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 May 22nd was not only the first wedding anniversary without my husband, Harry, but also the 5 month anniversary of his death. I made a little memorial garden of flowers and stones with sayings on them along the back of the shed in our yard where I found him that day. Every morning when I raise the window shade in the kitchen my eyes automatically go to that spot. I think it is going to help me to have something growing there. Since Mother's Day my grieving had worsened but today I am better. I have read many posts from others that say the anticipation of annivesarys and other dates is worse than the actual day and I must say that seemed to be the case for me. I was listening to his favorite radio station yesterday. As I pulled into my driveway and was about to shut off the truck the DJ announced the winner of lunch for two at Sonic's....and my name was announced. His boss called me immediately and said "see, the big stoop is still looking out for you!" Don't take that remark in a bad way as between them it was a term of endearment. Thanks for listening and I pray that we will all have a peaceful Memorial Day weekend.Sherry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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