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Anne reminded me that it is the Spring equinox today. This is a special festival for Pete and I. We celebrated them all but this one was special. I shall light a candle tonight. I shan't be able to carry out the rituals that Pete and I did together as it will hurt me too much. But I thought I would like to share this with you, my dear friends in grief. I will look for a suitable poem by my beloved Pete and post it on Pinterest. I will try to connect with him by meditation. I will know that he wants me to try to keep going and I will hope that one day I will be reunited with him. I wish you all Peace. Jan

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Jan, what is it that was special to you and Pete about this day? I never knew anyone to celebrate it, but anything that signifies Spring coming is good news to me! I hope the meditation helps...

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That looks like here in June...right now it's cold and windy, storming.

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We celebrated the full moon, the solstices and the equinoxes. We considered ourselves to be Pantheists so celebrated the earth, well the universe really. But now I find that a belief without personal survival won't do. I need to feel that Pete's personality has carried on and I'm not sure what I beleive now. I think Pete would be going through exactly the same route I am following. But I still want to celebrate these events and the equinox being the coming of spring is important Kay. I'm searching.

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Come to think of it, I think you told me that once before and I'd forgotten...I apologize for my old brain! :) I understand and I think it's cool! The earth gives so much to us...

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We celebrated the full moon, the solstices and the equinoxes. We considered ourselves to be Pantheists so celebrated the earth, well the universe really. But now I find that a belief without personal survival won't do. I need to feel that Pete's personality has carried on and I'm not sure what I beleive now. I think Pete would be going through exactly the same route I am following. But I still want to celebrate these events and the equinox being the coming of spring is important Kay. I'm searching.

I celebrate these also. The turning of the seasons is the earth's way of reminding us that as the year dies and is renewed, so are our loved ones. That's how I feel, anyway.

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