Clematis
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Hi Clematis
I am a new member having "lost" ( isnt that a ridiculous term, like maybe I can find him soon) my hubby of almost 52 years. I was reading "fall" and see you mentioned Prescott. I live in Prescott and my special man died at YRMC west. Yeah, I bet those trips to Costco and Trader Joes are not so. much fun anymore. Anyplace I go we had gone there togethere before, now the many, many, many "firsts" are bothering me a lot. Anyhow just thought I would say "hi". Autumn2
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Hi Autumn,
Yeah, going to Prescott is a trigger. One of the worst ones for a long time was Wal-Mart, and I had the hardest time figuring out why because we had not been there that many times. Finally I realized that so many of the times I was there alone over the years I was thinking about him and looking for something that would help him, amuse him, make him happy or save his life. After he died, none of those things were an option - there was no amusing him, helping him, or saving him because he was dead. After I figured out what the charge was behind the trigger, it got a lot better.
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